The Midlife Butterfly Journal

Stories of transformation, travel, and becoming.

What Midlife Is Trying to Tell You (If You’ll Listen): 5 Signs You’re Ready for a Reset menopause & mindset midlife transformation travel stories Jun 29, 2025

There’s a moment in midlife where everything begins to shift — but not all at once.

For me, it started quietly. I thought I was just tired. I didn’t want to go out anymore. I made excuses, like “I’m ...

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Why I Still Choose This Life—Even When It’s Hard menopause & mindset midlife transformation Jun 15, 2025

There’s a familiar scene that keeps repeating in my life lately:

A small room. A half-zipped backpack. My laptop balancing on a bed or a makeshift desk. A passport pouch tucked safely away, checked o...

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Facing Fear & Finding Freedom: How Travel and Midlife Transformation Go Hand in Hand menopause & mindset midlife transformation retreat reflections tools & resources travel stories Jan 27, 2025

Fear has a way of creeping in when we least expect it, urging us to retreat, to remain in the familiar, to avoid stepping into the unknown. Midlife often brings these moments to the forefront—whether ...

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Do You Feel Guilty for Not Feeling Guilty Enough? menopause & mindset midlife transformation retreat reflections tools & resources travel stories Jan 14, 2025

A few years ago, a friend asked me a question that stuck with me:

“Do you feel guilty… for not feeling guilty enough?”

I laughed out loud at first, but the truth was, that question struck a chord. I...

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A Call to Adventure: My Midlife Journey of Transformation menopause & mindset midlife transformation retreat reflections tools & resources travel stories Dec 31, 2024

Standing in a tiny boulangerie in France at just 11 years old, I felt a spark of independence ignite within me.

I mustered all the courage I had to order a baguette in French. The thrill of being und...

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